The representation of LGBTQ+ community in media, politics, and other areas of society can have both positive and negative impacts, which is why I spoke to Gender Euphoria author and editor Laura Kate Dale this week in a bid to understand the importance. Finding joy is part and parcel of combatting stereotypes according to the authors featured this week. However, there are several ways in which harmful representation can negatively impact LGBTQ+ individuals and the broader community:
- Misrepresentation: When LGBTQ+ people are misrepresented or portrayed inaccurately in media and other areas, it can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and misconceptions about the community. This can lead to discrimination and marginalisation, as well as a lack of understanding and acceptance from others.
- Erasure: LGBTQ+ individuals are often excluded or erased from mainstream media and representation, which can lead to a sense of invisibility and alienation. This can also result in a lack of resources and support for LGBTQ+ individuals who are struggling with issues such as mental health or discrimination.
- Stigma and Discrimination: Negative representation of LGBTQ+ individuals can contribute to stigmatisation and discrimination, which can lead to harm in many areas of life, including access to healthcare, employment, and housing.
- Psychological Distress: Constant exposure to negative representations of LGBTQ+ individuals can lead to psychological distress, including depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem. This can also impact individuals’ overall wellbeing and quality of life.
- Violence and Harassment: Negative representation can contribute to a culture of violence and harassment against LGBTQ+ individuals. This can result in physical harm, emotional trauma, and even death.
It is important to recognise that the representation of LGBTQ+ individuals is not a trivial matter. Negative representation can have far-reaching consequences for the community, including harmful impacts on mental health, wellbeing, and physical safety. It is essential that media, politicians, and society as a whole work towards more accurate and positive representations of LGBTQ+ individuals.
So what is the importance of Gender Euphoria?
Thanks to the following guests for participating:
Laura Kate Dale has worked as a full-time video-game critic for the past seven years, writing for Polygon, IGN, Kotaku UK, Destructoid and a whole bunch of other outlets. Her previous published books include the illustrated coffee-table book called Things I Learned From Mario’s Butt, about the educational value of assessing video-game characters’ buttocks. We talked about her book Gender Euphoria, an anthology of positive, real-world stories from trans writers.
Bela Gaytan is a queer, neurodivergent, disabled Latina instructional designer, IDEA practitioner with NASA, agency owner, speaker, and advocate with multiple disabilities.
Cassie Brooks is an accomplished author of empowering children’s picture books like “Sticks and Stones” and “I See the Moon and the Moon Sees Me.“
Chelsea Winstead who identifies as a lesbian, is also the co-founder of HerHQ, a former US Airforce Reserve Officer and a successful entrepreneur.
Dr Anjali Ferguson is a culturally responsive licensed psychologist, children’s book author, podcast host, and widely sourced expert on treating racial and social trauma and its mental health effects on children and families.
Here are some of the resources from the show:
“Being trans is awful” according to the media, governments, certain authors and ‘charity’ groups, but it’s not trans people sharing this kind of hateful commentary. As Ben Pechey, a LGBTQIA+ advocate and writer says, all this commentary is cis-people’s problem. Pechey looks into how to find joy in the LGBTQ+ community – where trans joy isn’t revolutionary, but an everyday occurrence?
Talks at Google welcomed British-Iraqi author Amrou Al-Kadhi, also a writer, filmmaker, drag performer and much more. Their new memoir ‘Unicorn’ discusses what it was like to grow up Muslim, queer and non-binary and how this impacted their life and relationships, particularly with their mother.
Books looked at this week:
Laura Kate Dale: Gender Euphoria: Stories of joy from trans, non-binary and intersex writers
Ben Pechey: The Book of Non-Binary Joy: Embracing the Power of You
Amrou Al-Kadhi: Life as a Unicorn: A Journey from Shame to Pride and Everything in Between
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